Pay Attention.
If something feels off or you have to work to make it make sense to you, then it’s not right. Seriously. If it’s not a heck yes, then it’s a no.
I went through this recently trying to decide if taking a new job was the right thing to do. I kept trying to talk myself into it & I noticed my chest feeling tight & my breathing would change. Your body knows when something isn’t right for you. It’s the Universe or God, trying to signal you not to move. The minute I made the decision not to move forward, I felt complete peace. My soul knew.
When something is meant to be yours, a job, a move to a new house, a relationship, choosing a college, these decisions shouldn’t feel like you’re going uphill. When it feels easy & every step leads to another step, and the doors keep opening to the next moment & you feel at ease as you go, then you know you’re on the right path. It should flow naturally.